I m referring to kaira's crying ritual which takes place everyday just before she enters the classroom.
It has been a loooong 4+ months that I've learned to take it one day at a time and not be too hopeful. She will occasionally not cry but those were rare days and after a day or 2 of no crying, she reverts back to her crying.
Why does she cry? Honestly, during the first few weeks and even first 2 mths, I was quite concerned n tried ways and means to 'help' her.... To try to identify the cause of her crying n how I can help. And whether I should change school etc etc.
After some time, I realise her crying became like a habit n at times, they were crocodile tears!
I told myself that one day she will stop I just hv to bear with it :p when we do talk abt her crying kaira tells me that she doesn't know why she is crying ... That she just felt like crying :( and that she likes her school n frens. So I guess, I juz need to be patient....
And so, today marks ths 3rd day that she didn't cry when I drop her off at school.
I hope this really marks an end to her crying phase n that a new beginning is here.
I am also looking forward to a new phase in my life! Let's c how things go :)